We are frequently being asked what an engaging first message could be like. Here are some tips that might help you to write a nice message and hopefully get a response:
- Read their profile carefully: Before sending a message, take the time to read the person’s profile carefully. Look for shared interests or beliefs that you can mention in your message to show that you have taken the time to read their profile and are genuinely interested in them.
- Be respectful: When contacting someone on a spiritual dating site, it is essential to be respectful and mindful of their beliefs and values. Avoid making assumptions or judgments and approach the conversation with an open mind and heart.
- Start with a friendly greeting: Start your message with a friendly greeting, such as “Hello” or “Hi.” This can help break the ice and make the person feel more comfortable and receptive to your message.
- Be clear and concise: When writing your message, be clear and concise. Avoid rambling or using too much spiritual jargon, which can be overwhelming or confusing for some people. Focus on expressing yourself in a straightforward and authentic way.
- Ask open-ended questions: Asking open-ended questions is an excellent way to start a conversation and show your interest in the other person. Avoid yes or no questions and instead ask questions that encourage the person to share more about themselves and their spiritual journey.
- Be patient: Remember that not everyone on a spiritual dating site will be looking for the same things as you, and some people may not respond to your message. Be patient, and don’t take it personally if someone doesn’t respond or isn’t interested in pursuing a conversation.
- Be yourself: Finally, be yourself and express yourself authentically. Don’t try to be someone you’re not or pretend to be more spiritual than you are. Being genuine and honest is the best way to attract like-minded people who share your values and beliefs.
Yet the most important thing might still be: Don’t wait for the other person to send you a message – be the one that writes first!
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About the author
This article was written with great care by:
Erik of Heartwalker
- Spiritual Advisor
- Transformation and mindfulness trainer
- Trained meditation teacher
- Certified Quantum Healer
- Full Empath
- Hypersensitive Person (HSP)